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How to avoid fakes, don’t get scammed by fake escort ads

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A sad fact of life is every place you go, you will find scammers. Fake escorts and backpage classifieds, fake services, frauds, flakes and this certainly holds true for the world of escorts

Updated March 26, 2020

Because of the nature of the escort and provider business, scammers and bad citizens are attracted to it to take advantage of potential clients. They may be unwilling to go to law enforcement if they’re scammed and/or robbers. Take the time to read this guide on spotting fake ads to avoid being scammed or ripped off..

Here at afterdarkads.com we’ve seen several types of scams that escort clients have to deal with:

  1. Escort ads made so people can just steal deposits.
  2. Many escort ads where people try to steal your credit card information.
  3. And for instance escort ads made for the purpose of blackmailing anyone that contacts the “adult escort” in the ads.
  4. Providers and escorts that don’t look anything like their photos
  5. An appointments with escorts that is nothing but a setup for a robbery

Great Ways to spot a fake post and avoid being scammed

This list does not guarantee that you will identify 100% of scams. They are reliable signs of fake escort ads or an adult escort that is not real:

  1. The post is overly vulgar and direct. For example, “Horny housewife wants your dick in her mouth rght now!“. Another sure sign is horrible English, as they are witted by Men in India and Bangladesh. “make fuck with dick me I horny alone with no husband” is most not going to be a real escort. An escort in Dallas, talking like a 7-11 worker reading from a bollywood porn script is not a real escort..
  2. The adult classified ads show overly sexualized photos or shows actual sex.
  3. The escort ads are too good to be true. If photos in the ad looks anything like super models,, and the ad says they offer $50 QV, move on. These are photos stolen from somewhere on the Internet. If you’ve talked to the provider and prices seem more realistic, make sure you verify the image of the person. Supermodels don’t give $50 blowjobs in cars. If they did, the world would be a very different place.

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  1. The photos in the escort ads look like someone’s Facebook photo profile. Scammers are running automated programs that go out and download random images from Facebook. They then they use those to create unique ads, making it harder to spot the scams. Remember that providers are trying to sell you something. If the post’s photos don’t look like they’re trying to make a sale, be wary. VERY few escorts on sites like backpage and afterdarkads, or any backpage replacement site show their faces. Usually use pics that disguise their real identity.
  2. Posts where someone is called a police informant. Or posts giving you an address of a provider and saying “come on over”. “I just love sex, everything is free”. These posts are made by competitors or jilted/annoyed exes in an attempt to harass a provider.
  3. Posts that ask you to join an Onlyfans site or some other cam site or any site you pay for.

Verify the image of an escort or provider

By verifying their image, we mean making sure the provider looks like their photos.

Ask the provider to send you a photo of themselves holding up 3 fingers. Holding up a piece of paper with a handwritten word on it. MANY escorts will not do this, and say so right in their ad. We understand both sides. Many escorts get blown up with texts all day asking for pics. MOST times the guy asking never books. Escorts posting on adult classified ads sites don’t want their time wasted any more than you want to be scammed.

Realize that there are Picture Collectors out there. They call up escorts and ask for photos, and then never end up seeing them, wasting a provider’s time. Most escorts are aware of this type of “customer”. One verification photo or a short video chat should be fine.

A great way to ask is like this:

“I understand that there are pic collectors out there, but I’m not one of those. There are a lot of scams out there, and I would just like to make sure you’re real. Please send me a photo of yourself in the mirror holding up 3 fingers. No nudity is necessary.”

If the escort refuses to send you a the photo, or video chat with you, move on — there are others out there. They send you a photo without the piece of paper or without holding up 3 fingers that you asked for, ask again. If you still don’t get the photo, move on.

Types of fake ads

Escort Ads made for stealing deposits

Fake ads that are set up to sucker a client in with the goal of stealing a deposit for the date. Real escorts and backpage classifieds on afterdarkads. Once they get the deposit, they cancel at the last minute or simply never show up for the meeting or give the room number. Some do this after you have traveled to the supposed incall location, and desperate clients wanting the meeting so badley will still send the deposit, even knowing its most likely a scam… most are not even trying to get anything big… just $25..

This type of scam is done by a wide range of people — from con artists in Bangladesh/Nigeria to regular Western women, who do look like their photos and make a better living asking for deposits or “payment up front” rather than actually providing services.

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In the escort and adult massage business, there are plenty of bad clients, they set appointments and dont show, or make escorts travel across town only to ghost them.. One can see how this can be very annoying for a provider, and cost them both time and money. Real escorts and backpage classifieds on afterdarkads.com

For both incalls and outcalls, we recommend talking with a provider first. Initial contact by text is fine, but if the provider refuses to talk to you, this is a huge red flag. Then you should verify their image.

 Ask the provider what area she serves first, without telling her where you are located. This is because a lot of deposit scammers make multiple posts with multiple accounts in different cities. If they ask you where you are located, or don’t tell you, move on. When you are unsure, ask if they are near the Megaplex or make up a name of a location…

What if the provider tells you that:

  • they don’t accept cash for security reasons
  • you have to send a deposit because that will prove you’re not working for the police
  • they’ve received counterfeit money before and now only accept online/electronic payments/ gift cards
  • they only want to be paid in gift cards
  • you must join their private snapchat or onlyfans or some other cam site first before a meetup (and it only costs very little…)

then move on: these are all sure tells that it is not a real adult escort or body rub provider

Ads where a scammer steals your credit card.

Again, similar to the Real escorts and backpage classifieds on afterdarkads, fake deposit ads, these ads use photos of very good-looking people Afterdarkads.com works very hard to find and eliminate these ads… but they do slip through.

The goal here is to get you to contact the person who posted the ad. They will typically reply very quickly, saying that they can meet up with you whenever and wherever you want. All you need to do is “verify your identity” — for the safety of the escort… (yea right)

They’ll send you to a site that looks very legit, typically with a direct link to their profile This profile photo will always show your current location as the location of the “escort” in question. Its a scam.

These sites will then have you sign up to “verify your identity”. Some will use age as a reason. Sometimes they will say they won’t charge your credit card, other times they may charge your credit card a dollar.

The ENTIRE aim of this scam is to steal your credit card information.

Escorts that don’t look like their photos

This one happens somewhat frequently. Even on afterdarkads.com , although other sites like backpage and backpage replacements it happens far more. You see a gorgeous girl in an advertisement:

You call her, she sounds super sweet, 60 minutes later she’s knocking at your door, you open the door in your robe, all ready to greet her and then kaaaboom!

Let’s just say, this wasn’t just a little bit of photoshopping.

In other circumstances, Real escorts and backpage classifieds on afterdarkads, avoid the fakes! you may have responded to an ad with a blonde photos, then a brunette arrives at your door, This happens when escorts work together, the person you call is busy, and they send their friend, thinking if any escort shows up at your door, you aren’t going to turn them away.

The easiest way to guard against this is, when you’re making an appointment, politely ask to verify the provider’s image.

When communicating with the provider by email, you may want to write something like:

Hi Jenna, before we set a meeting, I’m hoping you can send me a photo of you holding up a paper with the writing ‘Hi Fred‘ on it. I know your time is valuable, and I apologize for the inconvenience, but in the past I’ve been a victim of a bait-and-switch a few times: I respect your privacy and I don’t need to see any nude photos, again just to make sure you look like the photos in the ad

This will both give the provider a sense of security as you’re letting them know you’ve been with providers before. Real escorts and backpage classifieds on afterdarkads, avoid the fakes! acknowledging your respect for their time and privacy, and showing that you’re a polite person. If the provider doesn’t want to take a couple minutes to snap a few photos proving that their photos are real, then either they aren’t real, or they’re not going to give you good service. Skip the BS and move on.

Avoiding robberies by providers and escorts

There are two main types of robberies that happen in this business:

  1. Meetings that are setups for a robbery
  2. Opportunistic robberies, where you pay your provider an agreed-upon fee, and they suddenly dash out of the hotel room with the money. Alternatively, you may be robbed whilst you’re in the shower or some variation on this.

Realize that you can never be 100% safe in this business, especially if you’re seeing a provider in an area where prostitution is illegal or semi-legal. Some providers will take advantage of this by wagering that you won’t go to the police if they rob you. Accept that there will always be some risk, and that your best course of action is to minimize your risks, and if something bad does happen to minimize the potential damage.

  1. Never bring and unknown escort to your own place of residence, regardless of whether you are single or not.
  2. Get the escort to verify their image with you.
  3. When seeing an escort on an incall, only bring the money you need for your date and a possible tip. Don’t bring your wallet nor any of your ID.
  4. If you are driving to the provider’s place, and it isn’t an upscale hotel, park at least half a block away and walk to the location. You can choose to leave your key in a magnetic car lock box under your car, or hide it, this saves having your keys get “lost” in the incall.

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  1. When seeing a provider at their incall, walking into the room, greet the escort nicely and take a look around to make sure no one else is there. Make sure the door is then locked with the chain to prevent anyone else from entering and surprising you. If the provider gets worried when you do this, just smile and say, “I once got robbed by an escorts partner entering with a key she’d given her boyfriend, so I have to do this for my own security. Real escorts and backpage classifieds on afterdarkads, avoid the fakes!
  2. If you’re seeing a provider in your own hotel room, make sure you have the cash to pay them, and lock away your wallet and any valuables like a phone or wristwatch in the room safe, or hide them somewhere out of reach.
  3. Don’t give a provider money to “pay for the hotel room”, or to “buy condoms in the store” or to “pay for parking” — in short, to walk out for kind of errand before you start your session. If a hotel room needs to be paid first, walk with the provider over to the desk to pay, or go pay it yourself, then return.
  4. Talk to a provider on the phone before meeting, and ask for the provider verify their image, or video chat with you.
  5. If you are not single, or are worried about friends finding out about you seeing a provider, do not use your own personal/work email or phone to contact a provider.
  6. Paying for services in advance will depend on your relationship with the provider.

If you know of a scam ad somewhere on our site,

please email us regarding the ad, provide the ad id or a link to it.

If you have been scammed, please include screen captures of all messages between you and the provider and a screen capture of any money transfer you’ve made. You may blur out any of your personal information in the transfer except your name. Afterdarkads does NOT tolorate anyone ripping off our users. But dont forget, this works both ways, if you plan to scam or rip off our advertisers, expect blowback! Another place you can report scams and fake ads is on usasexguide.nl

Afterdarkads.com works very hard to run a clean site, devoid of human trafficking, scams and fake ads. We will not tolerate any of this, ESPECIALLY trafficking or sexual slavery situations. If you see anything that looks to you like it could be a sexual slavery/ human trafficking situation PLEASE report it to your local police AND to us here, by sending us all the details of the encounter you can. We will protect your identity, we WILL do all we can to stop the situation. Underage kids, sex slaves, anyone being forced into a situation, anyone that looks like they are or have been abused, PLEASE help us help those people by reporting it immediately!

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Afterdarkads and covid-19, doing all we can to help.

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The current crisis with covid-19 is hurting people around the world, both with their health, and their wallets… Escorts and advertisers doing adult work, dancers, body rubs, and other similar sexwork are some of the hardest hit and most at risk.

We at afterdarkads.com are doing what we can to help our advertisers in these tough times. All credit purchases are now 2 for 1, essentially making the cost to advertise 50% off. Visit adacredits.com to buy credits, and whatever purchase you make, double will be deposited.

This will continue for the duration of the crisis.  Sadly we can not make it free… we tried, and those DAMN spam posters from India and Bangladesh posted over 2000 ads in 24 hrs. As we have stated before, we will NOT allow fake ads from spam posters pretending to be escorts to post on afterdarkads. Forcing them to pay even a small bit destroys their profits, and prevents most from posting.

Their garbage fake escort posts force REAL advertisers to spend more and post more to be seen, they decrease the number of calls real advertisers ads get, and end up making the clients not want to visit the site, because they, like all of us, are sick of the fake ads. Ads advertising other sites OPENLY, will be allowed, but commercial posters pay a $250 registration fee, and the cost is double per post than a real advertiser or normal escort.

We are committed to helping our REAL advertisers and not forcing them to compete with spam like other sites. Afterdarkads has now given over $25,000 to charities supporting sexworkers affected by the virus crisis. ANY advertiser that is continuing to work, and can not afford advertising, please message us at info@afterdarkads.com We will find a way to help you. We want our advertisers to be safe! We are advising escorts and sexworkers to NOT be active during these times seeing clients. We know that is tough, but help is available… your health and safety are more important than any bill…

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Cam traffic is up almost 50% during these times, as everyone is at home online! Cash in and be safe!

 Lastly, we are excited to announce that we are EXPLODING! Our traffic is up over 10,000 percent since December, we are the number 1 search result on google for MANY of the best search strings… see for yourself! Search “adult classifieds” or Denver Backpage,  Miami Backpage… and MANY more… you will see us as first page and number 1 results!

What does this mean? It means there are more clients on the site looking for you than EVER! Maybe you posted back in November, and didn’t get any calls… well things have changed!

Get a FRESH add up, and see the amazing results! We encourage our advertisers to join the easy VIP program. For less than $1 a day, you get $100 in free ad credits for upgrades, all of your ads marked “VERIFIED” and unlimited free posts! Our advertise the competition! We beg of all of you to be safe and take care of yourselves during these tough times… please don’t hesitate to reach out to us if there is anything we can do to help!

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Common Escort Terms, Definitions and Words.

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Escort terms, sex definitions and abbreviations in escort ads
October 27, 2013 | About escorts
This is an escort terms / escort slang dictionary of words used to describe various sexual activities in escort ads. Each sex term is followed by a definition and every escort abbreviation is explained.

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Top ten most frequently used terms in escort ads
A-Level / Greek
BBBJ
CIM
DATY
DFK
GFE A vague term today, it used to mean “BBBJ + CFS + DFK + DATY + MSOG”.

MSOG
PSE
Russian

Other common Internet abbreviations

0-9
3G
Get In. Get off. Get out.
411
Information, intelligence, intel. e.g. “I got the 411 on her from hobbyhorse”. In the context of online forums requests for information about ASPs are labeled “411“, e.g., “411 Redhead Rianna”.


420 or 420 friendly
An ASP that will smoke marijuana with you. A bit of advice: Adding drugs to your hobbying mix tends to give you a MUCH larger profile on Uncle Leo’s radar. An ASP who has a rep for being 420-friendly is likely getting way more attention from Uncle Leo than the more conservative hobbyists would prefer.


69
Mutual, simultaneous oral sex.


$
The dollar sign (or collection of dollar signs) is sometimes used imply the price range of the services offered/provided. E.g., $ = $100, $$ = $200, $$$ = $300 and so on. Often .5 signifies $50, so $$.5 would mean $250.
A
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Escort terms starting with A

AAMP
Apartment-based Asian massage parlor, as opposed to a commercial establishment.
ABC
American-born Chinese, also known as “banana”: yellow outside, white inside.
ABJ
American-born Japanese.
AC/DC
Bisexual.
A-Level
British parlance for anal sex. See also Greek.
abrasion
Rubbing the body with a variety of materials from raw silk to leather to sandpaper.
adult baby creche
A parent-child roleplay with one participant taking care of another. Also called ageplay, it can include the wearing and changing of diapers as well as bottle feeding.
agency
An organization or individual that manages many providers. The agency handles all calls, bookings and advertising. The agency takes a percentage of the fee for each session.
Ageplay
Scenes in which at least one participant pretends to be significantly younger than he or she actually is.
All covered
Also all covered play. With condom.
amazon
A tall, strong, often masculine woman.
AMP
Asian Massage Parlor.
animal play
Animal transformation fantasy: Games and scenes in which the sub (bottom) acts or dresses like a dog, cat, horse, etc. See ponyboy, ponygirl.
AO
Will see Asian clients only.
ASP
Adult Service Provider.
analingus
aka “Asian”: oral stimulation of the anus.
Around The World
Rimming. Oral sex on the anus of either sex, analingus
Three acts in a session: oral, vaginal and anal
Analingus and fellatio
Asian
Oral sex on the anus of either sex, analingus, aka rimming, DATO.
Asian Cowgirl
cowgirl with girl squatting.
ATF
All Time Favorite.
ATM
Ass To Mouth. Penis, finger or toy comes out of receiver’s anus, and goes directly into receiver’s mouth.
attempts
Trying to reach orgasm. e.g. ASP allowed multiple attempts: means the ASP allows more than one orgasm per session if the client is able and interested.
aka MSOG.
Aunt Flo
Menstruation, period. ‘Being visited by Aunt Flo‘.
B
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B&D
Bondage and Discipline.
B&S, bait & switch
Describes a situation where ASP advertisements, which may include photos, written or verbal descriptions, do not match the ASP who shows up, or which has been grossly misrepresented the ASP.
babyback
Petite, young, attractive Asian woman.
baby dyke
A young lesbian or someone who is just coming out of the closet.
bag
Condom, with a condom, e.g. “BJ in a bag” = CBJ or “I filled the bag” = orgasm.
Baja Sur
Genitals. From the Spanish “the low south”.
balloons
Breast implants.
bare back, bareback, BB
Without a condom. Depending upon context it may be used as shorthand for intercourse without a condom (BBFS).
barracuda
An ASP whose only purpose is to separate you from your money as quickly as possible, preferably without giving you anything in return.
Batin
Groin massage, but sometimes means hand job (from Malaysia).
BBBJ
Bare Back Blow Job. fellatio without a condom; aka “un-translated French” (UTF).
BBBJNQNS
Bare Back Blow Job No Quit No Spit; oral sex performed to completion with swallowing.
BBBJTC
Bareback Blowjob To Completion. Oral stimulation of the penis to orgasm without a condom. (May spit or swallow), aka CIM.
BBBJTCWS
Bare Back Blow Job to Completion with Swallowing.
BBBJWF
Bareback Blowjob With Facial.
BBFS
Sexual intercourse without a condom.
BBK
Big beautiful knockers.
BBW
Big Beautiful Woman. An escort, ASP, who caters to clientele that prefer overweight, obese women.
BCD
Behind Closed Doors. Often used to mean activities that will be described to a privileged listener or nobody at all.
BDSM
Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism. This is a catch-all to refer to the various aspects of negotiated, mutually consensual exchange of power between two consenting adults. Regardless of the depth of the relationship, consent, safety and sanity are the cornerstone of this lifestyle.
Bear
A large hairy (homosexual) man.
beard
A person of the opposite sex who marries or dates a closeted lesbian or gay person to cover up their homosexuality. In the past, often lesbians married gay men so that both could “pass” as straight, either for work or for their families.
beret
A condom.
BF
boyfriend.
BFE
Boyfriend Experience, A subjective term used primarily by ASP to describe good clients.
birdwatching
BBBJTCWS or CIM and ASP swallows. See BBBJNQNS, NQNS.
bisexual
A person who is sexually and emotionally attracted to both women and men.
blackhole
Anus.
blue pill or blue steel
Viagra.
BJ
Blow job, fellatio, French. Oral stimulation of the penis.
BL
Body Lick.
BLS
Ball Licking and Sucking.
BNG
Blow-n-go, a 15-minute oral-only session.
Body-Rub
A massage or massage-like service. Used instead of “massage”, usually to indicate sexual stimulation (usually a handjob) is included and the person performing the service is not licensed as a massage therapist, aka FBSM, Sensual Massage.
Bondage chair
A piece of furniture, sometimes a very complex one, with varying number of restraints to keep a sub at dom’s mercy.
Boston Marriage
In the late nineteenth century, it was common for two unmarried women to share a home. Many women, particularly those who were college educated, lived in long-term unions with other women. These relationships became known as “Boston Marriages”.
Bottom
In homosexual parlance: the passive partner. In BDSM: the submissive.
Breath control
A type of BDSM play in which the Dom controls the Sub‘s access to oxygen. Can be dangerous.
brown eye
Anus.
brown shower
Defecation on your partner.
BS or body slide
Service where the ASP may slide their body on the client’s body using oil.
BSB
Bus stop babe.
bukkake
A variety of fetish that involves repeated ejaculation of a female by many men. See also gokkon.
bulldagger
A term that was used in the 1920s to define a very butch lesbian. Often African American.
bulldyke
A very masculine lesbian.
businessmen-only, gentlemen-only or professional-only
A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The ASP posts this in hopes of attracting “better” clientele.
butch
A woman who adopts what would be considered masculine characteristics. Also a masculine homosexual.
butter face
A women whose body is very attractive, but her face is not. Everything looks good but ‘er face.
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Camp
Effeminate male – from KAMP, Known As Male Prostitute.
canine, K9
See Doggy style.
cash and dash
A rip-off. The person posing as an ASP shows up, takes your money, doesn’t provide any services or might offer to “dance” (but more often than not does not), and leaves with the cash, aka dance and dash, ROB.
CBJ
Covered Blow Job. Blowjob or with a condom on, aka translated French (TF).
CBT
Cock and ball torture: application of clamps, cages, weights, wax, etc to male genitals as either punishment or tease and denial. Can be dangerous.
CC Rider
An ASP who is FS for $200/hr or less. The “CC” bit is the Roman numeral for 200.
CCL
Concentration Camp Look.
CD
cross-dresser.
A person, and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite gender especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification.
A person who sometimes wears the clothing and aesthetics of a gender other than the one they typically wear in their daily lives. See also transvestite
CDS
Covered Doggy Style.
CFM
Come Fuck Me, usually refer to the look of a person.
CFS
Covered Full Service. Sexual intercourse (coitus) with a condom.
CG
Cowgirl: she’s on top facing you.
Chump
A man who gives his money and/or his attention to women without getting any pussy in return. Largely a phenomenon experienced by American men when dating American women.
CID
Cum In Deep. The provider lets you come inside her with no condom. See BBFS.
CIH
Cum in Hair.
CIM
Cum In Mouth (in the context of fellatio without a condom (UTF/BBBJ)), see also NQNS, BBBJTC.
civilian
A person who makes them self available for sexual encounters but not for financial gain. May be less discreet than an ASP and more interested in a relationship. Not to be confused with non-pro.
CL
Craig’s List. The classifieds board of the internet, and formerly a free place for providers to advertise. Not so much a of player since the removal of Adult and Erotic services.
clock watcher
An ASP who counts the minutes until the session is over. Usually used to describe an ASP who rushes and does not enjoy her work.
CMD
Carpet Matches Drapes (typically a natural blonde).
CMP
Chinese Massage Parlor.
CMT
Certified Massage Therapist. Generally a CMT is not an ASP. While an ASP specializing in massage services might be a CMT, it is unwise to assume a CMT is an ASP. Very unwise.
COB
Cum On Body. Man ejaculates on a woman’s body.
COF
Cum On Face. Man ejaculates on woman’s face, aka face painting or facial.
COH
Cum on Hair.
Cottage
To cottage: to look for sexual partners in public bathrooms. Synonym: to cruise.
coitus
Sexual intercourse characterized by the male penis entering the female vagina.
collar and cuffs match
A euphemism to indicate that pubic hair color matches color of the hair on the head; natural hair coloring. Sometimes also referred to as ‘carpet & curtains match’.
COM
Cum Over Mouth (in the context of fellatio without a condom (UTF/BBBJ)). Lots of women hate swallowing so use the term C-0-M instead of C-I-M.
commercial company
a euphemism for prostitution generally used by truckers.
completion
Orgasm. e.g. Bareback blowjob to completion.
cover
A condom.
covered
Various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid sexually transmitted diseases. (e.g. Covered Blowjob means a condom was used.).
Cowgirl
‘Girl on top’ position for sexual intercourse. Sometimes abbreviated CG (though this can be confused with the abbreviation for Call Girl as well. Mind the context for clarification.).
crime scene action
Sexual activity during the provider’s period (while menstruating). See also red wings.
crone
The word “crone” was (and in some circles still is) a derogatory term for an old woman. In the 1970s, during the feminist movement, lesbians began to adopt the word crone to mean a wise older woman. Today, in lesbian and feminist circles, a crone is a wise older woman whose life experience demands that she be treated with respect.
cruising
Looking for prostitutes while driving. Cyber-equivalents aren’t hard to imagine. Also, in homosexual slang, this is the same as “cottaging“.
crushing
Fetish relating to dominance and control; a desire to see small, defenseless animals crushed under women’s high heels.
cunnilingus
Oral stimulation of a woman’s genitalia. ‘giving head’ to a woman. ‘going down on’ a woman.
cups of coffee
Orgasms, e.g. multiple cups of coffee means the provider allows more than one orgasm.
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dance and dash
A rip-off. The person posing as an ASP shows up, takes your money, doesn’t provide any services or might offer to “dance” (but more often than not does not), and leaves with the cash. See cash and dash, ROB.
DAP
Digital anal probe, see digital penetration, aka digits.
date
(1) A session with an ASP. (2) A person who patronizes an ASP.
date rape drug
Rohypnol (generic name flunitrazepam) has been associated with date rape, and has also been called the “Forget Pill,” “Trip-and-Fall,” and “Mind-Erasers.” In combination with alcohol, it can induce a blackout with memory loss and a decrease in resistance. Girls and women around the country have reported being raped after being involuntarily sedated with Rohypnol, which was often slipped into their drink by an attacker. The drug has no taste or odor so the victims don’t realize what is happening. About ten minutes after ingesting the drug, the woman may feel dizzy and disoriented, simultaneously too hot and too cold, or nauseated. She may experience difficulty speaking and moving, and then pass out. Such victims have no memories of what happened while under the drug’s influence.
DATO
Dining At The O. Analingus, oral stimulation of the anus. See also rimming and Asian.
DATY
Dine At The “Y”; cunnilingus.
DDE
Doesn’t Do Extras. Implies the ASP has a very limited and stringently adhered to menu.
DDF
Drug and Disease Free.
DDG
Drop Dead Gorgeous.
DDP
Double Digit Penetration (vagina and anus).
deep throat or DT
fellatio where the whole length of the penis is “swallowed”.
defender
A hobbyist who defends or “comes to the rescue” of a provider who has been reviewed or spoken of poorly, regardless of whether the review or comments are accurate, aka White Knight.
deposit
a payment in advance of a session. Deposits are usually used by ASPs as a hedge against no-shows.
DFE
Dead Fish Experience.
DFF
Dead Fish Fuck.
DFK
Deep French Kissing. Kissing with deep, substantial tongue contact.
diesel dyke
A very butch or manly lesbian, especially one who is very aggressive.
digital penetration
Insertion of the fingers (or toes) in the vagina or anus for the purpose of sexual stimulation. This has nothing to do with the insertion of digital devices up anyone’s orifice—hold on to those iPads!
Dirty Sanchez
When two people engage in anal sex, then the person who has been ‘giving it’ to the other’s ass takes his penis or penis-like implement and rubs it on the other person’s upper lip leaving a moustache.
DIY
Do It Yourself (masturbation). See also self-service.
doggie style
Rear entry position for sexual intercourse. See Spanish.
Dominant
In BDSM, a person who administers the training to a submissive. Often shortened to Dom.
donation
A euphemism for a payment to an ASP. Generally considered a feeble dodge against legal concerns: after all if you are giving the ASP a donation or gift, you are not paying for sex.
double penetration
when a person (generally a female) has two objects (generally penises) simultaneously inserted in any two of the mouth, anus or vagina (most commonly the anus and vagina).
doubles
A threesome with two ASPs.
DP
Double Penetration
Digital Penetration
Drag king
A woman who dresses to look like a man, usually for performance. Drag kings are often lesbian, but not always.
Drag queen
A male who dresses like a female, usually for performance.
DS
doggiestyle.
DSL
Dick-sucking lips.
DT or deep throat
fellatio where the whole length of the penis is “swallowed”.
dyke
Another word for lesbian. Usually is only used by people who are gay, lesbian, bisexual or trans. A straight person using this word may offend some people.
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ED
Erectile Dysfunction.
EE
Erotic Enema.
Ellie
Law Enforcement. The euphemism stems from the fact that people would refer to Law Enforcement with the abbreviation, “LE”. When expressed phonetically it was confused with the female name, “Ellie“. Since confusion and chaos rule despite people’s best efforts—.
EMA
Extra-Marital-Affairs. Affairs after marriage, but before divorce.
EMP
European Massage Parlor (white girls).
English
Segment of bondage and discipline; including spanking /whipping.
enhancements
Implants, most commonly breast implants, but sometimes penile implants (depending upon context).
envelope
Often cash payments for an ASP’s services are placed in an envelope. Rather than handing the ASP cash directly, or discussing money, the envelope is left in a conspicuous location for the ASP to discreetly pick up.
EOM
End of Message. Used in a subject line of a forum post to indicate no further content in body of message—where the title is intended to be sufficient.
escort definition
An escort is an Adult entertainer who is compensated for his or her time and companionship.
escort mall, mall
A website that advertises many different ASPs. The ASPs may be independent or agency, and may or may not be associated with
each other, or with the mall.
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F2F
A female doing something to (providing a service for) a female.
f2m
A female doing something to (providing a service for) a male.
face painting
Man ejaculates on woman’s face, aka facial or COF.
face sitting
In BDSM, a form of erotic humiliation, whereby the dom sits on the face of a sub to force oral-genital or oral-anal contact.
facial
Man ejaculates on woman’s face, aka face painting or COF.
Fag hag
A woman who likes homosexual males.
Fairy
A male homosexual.
FBSM
Full Body Sensual Massage. A massage usually ending with a hand job. Often times the provider is nude or topless, aka Body Rub, Sensual Massage. Spelled “FBSM+”, means “with a bonus” and usually means a BJ.
fellatio
Oral stimulation of the penis, aka Blow Job (BJ), ‘giving head’ (f2m or m2m).
femme
A feminine lesbian, cf. butch.
FDAU
Face down, ass up.
FFF
The strategy of “Find them, Fuck them, Forget them”.
fisting
The act or art of putting a fist in an anus or vagina. Apparently a very popular practice among more evolved (kinky) gays. It requires great care and huge amounts of lubrication.
FIA
Finger In Ass.
FIR
Finger In Rear.
Fire and ice
providing a blowjob with the mouth filled alternately with hot tea and ice.
FIV
Finger In Vagina, digital stimulations.
Five-O
A police officer (uniformed or undercover). The cultural reference stems from the 1970’s TV show “Hawaii 5-O”, which derived its name from the name for Hawaii State Police force.
FJ
Foot Job. Stimulation of the penis using feet and toes.
FK
French Kissing.
FKK
Frei Körper Kultur, German nudist subculture.
FL
Free Lance.
flake
One who exhibits flaky or erratic behavior. Often used to describe ASPs or hobbyists who no-show and/or have scheduling issues.
FMF
Threesome designation: female, male, female.
FOB
Fresh off the boat, a recent immigrant.
FOBU
Fat-Old-Bald-Ugly.
FOTC
Fuck Of The Century.
FOV
Finger Outside Vagina.
FR
Field Report, Fuck Review.
Foot fetish
aka Foot warship – intense sexual interest in the shape, size, smell, texture and other characteristic of a foot.
French
Oral stimulation of the penis. Fellatio. “Translated” = with a condom. “Untranslated” = without a condom.
French Kissing
Kissing on mouth with tongue contact
French letter
Condom.
FS
Full service. Sexual intercourse (coitus) to completion.
FTF
Fun To Fuck.
FUD
Fear, Uncertainty and Doubt. What some (asshole) posters try to spread when they post on public forums with false accusations of LE activity and STD outbreaks.
full meal deal
Sexual intercourse (coitus) to completion, aka Full Service.
FUTB
Finger Up The Butt.
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Gayborhood
A gayborhood is a gay-friendly neighborhood or an area of town where gays and lesbians are known to live.
Gaydar
The ability to determine who is and isn’t gay.
Gay dirt
An attractive young male used by the police to entrap homosexuals.
gender expression
The physical manifestation of one’s gender identity, usually expressed through clothing, mannerisms, and chosen names.
gender identity
A person’s internal sense of being a man or woman or boy or girl. For transgender people, their gender identity will not match the gender with which they were born.
gender identity disorder
A term used by physicians and psychologists to classify people who are transgender or transsexual.
gender variance
Behavior that is different from traditionally defined “masculine” in males and “feminine” in females.
genderqueer
Someone who transgresses boundaries of gender identity and sexual orientation.
gentlemen only
businessmen-only or professional-only. A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The ASP posts this in hopes of attracting a “better” clientele.
Get brain
Receive a blowjob.
get comfortable
Get naked. As a feeble dodge of law enforcement, an ASP may ask a client to “get comfortable” or “make yourself comfortable” before a session, this means to get fully undressed.
GF
Girlfriend.
GFE
Girlfriend Experience. A frequently used, but utterly nebulous term. It refers to a session that is more like lovemaking with a girlfriend than a commercial service, whatever that means! It generally implies more about the tone & tenor of the session than about specific services provided, but many believe GFE should include the possibility of DFK, DATY, UTF and a broad array of FS positions.
GF3
Girlfriend experience with all three holes.
girl crush
When two women have strong feelings for one another, but not in a sexual way. A girl crush is strong infatuation that one woman has for another woman who seems beautiful, sophisticated, charming or accomplished. It usually refers to heterosexual women.
Glory hole
A literal hole in the wall between two spaces. The legendary purpose of this hole is to insert one’s penis in hopes of receiving an anonymous (this is the main thrill) handjob, blowjob or coitus.
glove
condom.
GND
Girl Next Door.
GOG
Girl-On-Girl.
gokkon
A variety of fetish that involves swallowing and/or ingesting copious amounts of semen by either a man or a woman. See also bukkake.
Golden shower, GS
Urinating on your partner, urine play. See also water sports.
Gold star lesbian
A lesbian who has never slept with a man and has no intention of ever sleeping with a man.
Gorean
A BDSM subculture owing its existence to the world of Gor from the novels by John Norman. Gorean philosophy assigns stereotypical, “natural” roles to genders.
Greek
anal sex; anal sexual intercourse; penetration of the anus by the penis.
GSM
G-Spot Massage.
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Half & Half
BJ followed by FS; a combination of both oral sex and sexual intercourse; fellatio & coitus.
Handballing
Inserting a fist (optionally – with a part of the forearm) into the rectum.
hard sports
Giving or receiving. Playing with feces, also known as scat play or brown showers.
Hardwood floors
Clean-shaven pubic area.
Hasbian
A woman who used to identify as a lesbian and dated women, but is now dating men.
hat
condom.
HC
High Class.
HDH
High Dollar Hottie.
HE
Happy Ending: usually a handjob or a blowjob after a massage.
Herb friendly
Is amenable to marijuana use, aka 420 friendly. A bit of advice: Adding drugs to your hobbying mix tends to give you a MUCH larger profile on Uncle Leo’s radar. An ASP, who has a rep for being herb friendly likely is getting way more attention from Uncle Leo than the more conservative hobbyists would prefer.
HH
Half Hour.
HHHJ
Half Hearted Hand Job.
hidden charges
An ASP takes the advertised fee upfront, but in the midst of the session she asks for more money for more services. (e.g. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.), aka upselling.
Hindu massage
The woman contracts her vaginal muscles during sex to squeeze you to completion (Argentina).
HJ or Handjob
Masturbation; hand & finger stimulation of the penis by the ASP, aka hand release, manual release.
HM
High Mileage. A derogatory reference to the number of sexual partners a person may have had. Conveys an implication of showing the ‘wear and tear’ of the said mileage.
HME
Honeymoon Experience. Supposedly better than a GFE, and even more nebulous. It refers to a session that is comparable to the intensity and passion of lovemaking while on one’s honeymoon. Mostly marketing hype.
hobby
Slang, euphemistic reference to the business of a client enlisting the services of an ASP.
hobbyist
Slang, euphemistic reference to one who (actively) participates in ‘the hobby‘.
homophobia
Fear or dislike of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people.
hooker
Prostitute.
Hostess club
A lower end strip club where bargaining for sex acts with the dancers is acceptable, and some activities may occur on premises.
Hotdogging
Also hotdoggin’. The pseudo-sexual act of placing the penis between the butt cheeks of the receiving partner. The penis being the “Hotdog” and the butt cheeks being the “Bun”. There is no intercourse, and usually no ejaculation. This is mainly a comical practice, and usually enjoyed by the giver more than the receiver. See also Italian.
HTUMA
Her/His Tongue Up My Ass, analingus.
human ashtray
Waste receptacle at the services of superior human beings.
humiliation
Actions aimed to cause a submissive a feeling they long after. These are the things they normally don’t do, like wearing bizarre clothing, having sex in public, playing puppy or pony, or accepting verbal abuse.
Hustler
A male prostitute. Same as punk.
HWP
Height and Weight Proportional. “Normal” build.
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Incall
Client meet the ASP at her location.
independent, indie
An ASP who works on her own, without an agency affiliation. The ASP manages her own calls, bookings, advertising and finances.
interpreter
Condom (e.g. She spoke French without the aid of an interpreter = BBBJ).
intersex
A person born with ambiguous genitalia or genitalia of both sexes. Used to be called hermaphrodite.
IPO
Initial Public Offering. Used to denote the public introduction of a new ASP, usually via a review.
ISO
In Search Of. A post/inquiry looking for something (presumably ‘something’ specific).
Italian
Similar to Russian, but the penis is placed between the partner’s butt cheeks. See also hotdogging.
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Jack Shack
An establishment (massage parlor, lingerie modelling) that is not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and hand job, but more services might be available.
Jimmy Hat
A condom.
John
A man who patronizes prostitutes, a hobbyist.
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K9
Canine, or doggy style.
Kama Sutra or Kamasutra
A Sanskrit treatise setting forth rules for sensuous and sensual pleasure, love, and marriage in accordance with Hindu law.
KGFE
Korean GFE: with CBJ rather than BBBJ.
Kitty
Vagina and/or surrounding areas. The words you can expect to see used together with K. are “bald”, “partly shaven”, “trimmed”, “natural”.
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L/A/S
Looks/Attitude/Service: A subjective ranking system where each criteria is separately ranked, from lowest (1) to highest (10). Examples: 2/9/8 = Unattractive, but very friendly and good sex. 10/5/4 = Model material, but a poor attitude, and mediocre sex.
LASER
Same as above + Expense and (would or wouldn’t) Repeat.
labrys
A double-sided axe that the Amazons were said to use as their main weapon. Lesbians have adopted the labrys as symbol of power and independence. Many lesbians wear necklaces or earrings with a labrys symbol as a way to identify themselves to other lesbians.
Landing strip
A style of pubic hair sculpting resulting in a narrow vertical strip.
Lapdog
A hobbyist who worships an ASP to excess.
Lay down doggie
Also lazy dog. Doggie style with woman flat on stomach.
LD
Lap dance.
LDL
Low dollar looker, the opposite of HTH.
LE
Law Enforcement.
LEO
Law Enforcement Officer.
lesbian
A woman who is sexually and emotionally attracted to other women.
LFK
Light French Kiss. Kissing with only light tongue involvement.
LGBT
An abbreviation for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender.
Lipstick lesbian
A woman who loves other women, but also loves her clothes and makeup and shoes. She tends to dress on the femme side.
Little blue helper
Viagra.
LK
Light Kissing (closed mouth).
LMP
Licensed Massage Practitioner. See also CMT. Can also mean “Latin Massage Parlor”.
LMT
Licensed Massage Therapist. See also CMT.
Lone Star Lesbian
A woman who has only had sex with one other woman in their life. Straight and bisexual people can be Lone Stars as well, but Lone Star Hetero doesn’t sound nearly as interesting.
LOS
Land of smiles, Thailand.
lot lizard
A prostitute that works primarily in truck stop parking lots (usually soliciting from a CB radio).
LPIN
Legal prostitute in Nevada.
LTR
Long Term Relationship. When an ASP drops out of the business for a very substantial stipend, paid weekly, or monthly for exclusivity she is said to be in a long term relationship. See also sugar daddy.
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m2f
A male doing something to (providing a service for) a female.
m2m
A male doing something to (providing a service for) a male.
Madame
Proprietress of an agency.
Maid
In a British parlour, the person who answers the phone and books the schedule.
Mall
Also escort mall. A website like Skipthegames.com that advertises a variety of escorts or ASPs. The ASPs may be independent or agency, and may or may not be associated with each other, or with the mall.
Mamasan
Female manager of an asian massage parlor.
Man in a boat, little man in a boat
Clitoris.
Manual release
Stimulation of the penis to orgasm using hand and fingers, aka hand job, hand release.
Massage
A method of treating the body for remedial or hygienic purposes, including but not limited to rubbing, stroking, kneading, or tapping with the hand or an instrument or both. It may, but does not necessarily, include sexual stimulation. Sensual Massage indicates a massage with sexual stimulation (usually a hand job).
MBR
Multiple Bell Ringing (MSOG).
Mediterranean
Anal sex or analingus, e.g. “She took me on a trip to the Mediterranean.”. See also Greek.
Menu
The services generally considered available from a particular ASP.
merkin
Pubic hair wig / toupee. Also, something George W. Bush has repeatedly said he is proud to be.
MFF
Threesome designation: Male, female, female.
MFM
Threesome designation: male, female, male.
MG
Massage Girl.
MIB
Man in blue, law enforcement officer.
Mileage
A subjective term that describes value for money and/or how accommodating an ASP is. Good mileage usually means she either charges less than average, provides better L/A/S than average, or both.
MILF
Mom/Mother I’d Like to Fuck.
Missionary
Also mish. A position for sexual intercourse where the man is on top.
MJ
Massage Job.
ML
Make Love
Massage Lady
MMF
Threesome designation: male, male, female.
Mohawk
A pubic hair style leaving a narrow strip of hair in the middle of the pubic area, aka landing strip, muff hawk, cock mohawk.
Monger
Short for whore monger. One who frequents prostitutes. See also hobbyist.
MP
Massage Parlor
Multiple Positions
Multiple Pops (MSOG)
MPA
Massage Parlor Attendant.
MPCFS
Multiple Positions Covered Full Service.
MPOS
Multiple Positions Oral Sex.
MSOG
Multiple Shots On Goal, also Multiple Pops. The ASP allows you the opportunity to climax more than once during the session.
Mummification
Wrapping a person up with layers material in order to immobilize them (nose and mouth are left open for breathing). Used to induce the feeling of utter helplessness. Can be considered a form of sensory deprivation.
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NC/NS, NCNS
No Call / No Show. See also no-show.
Newbie
Newb, a novice hobbyist or novice ASP.
NGP
Non/Not Genuine Photos.
NMG
No-Money Guys. Hobbyists who are on a strict (generally low) budget for hobbying.
Nooner
A lunch-time or afternoon session, popular with married hobbyists.
Non-pro
A person who makes her/himself available for sexual encounters for financial gain only occasionally (possibly to meet some short-term financial needs). May be less discreet than a provider and more interested in a relationship. Some argue that ‘the line’ is more definitive: if you take money, then you are a professional.
No-show
When an ASP or hobbyist doesn’t show up for an appointment and has not contacted the other party in advance to cancel or warn of problems in making the appointment. A very annoying and, unfortunately, too common occurrence in the hobby. When the offending party doesn’t call afterwards to offer an explanation and/or apology the situation is referred to as a No-Show/No-Call (NS/NC) and is considered an even more egregious offense.
No-touch
No touching allowed. (e.g. no-touch Jack shack, no-touch strip club).
NQBC
Non-quitter, but covered. CBJ to completion.
NQBS
Non-quitter, but spitter. BBBJTC and spits your ejaculate.
NQNS
No Quit No Spit; oral sex performed to completion with swallowing.
NSA
No Strings Attached.
NS/NC
No Show / No Call. see also no-show.
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O, O’s
Orgasm or orgasms.
Off the clock
Activities that occur with an ASP that she chooses not to charge for. (e.g. “We had lunch off-the-clock“).
ONS
One Night Stand.
OTC
Oral To Completion. Fellatio to orgasm.
Out
As in “outed”. Private, personal information on a hobbyist or an ASP is made public. e.g. Someone’s real name and address is posted to a public forum.
Outcall
The ASP comes to the client’s location.
Out of the closet
Being open about one’s (LGBT) sexual orientation.
OVK
Over the knee spanking – bending a submissive over one’s knee and striking his or her buttocks with either an open hand or a cane, paddle, whip, etc.
OVN
Overnight.
OWO
Oral Without, fellatio without a condom, aka BBBJ, UTF.
OWOTC
Oral Without Condom To Completion.
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P2P
Privates to privates: rubbing genitalia together without insertion.
P4P
Pay for Play. Refers to the concept of paying for sex.
Papasan
Male manager of an asian massage parlor.
Party favors
Drugs.
Party hat
Condom.
PFF
Pussy For Free (a myth).
Pearl necklace
Man ejaculates on woman’s neck and/or chest, trying to produce a white ‘decoration’.
Pegging
Anal penetration of a male by a female with the help of either a buttplug or strap-on.
PIITB
Put it in the bum/butt.
Pillow queen
Someone who likes to be on the receiving end of sex without much reciprocation.
Pimp
A person (generally a man) who solicits clients for a prostitute.
Pink boxing
A slang term for anal or vaginal fisting.
PIV
Penis in Vagina.
PL
Pathetic Loser.
PM
Prostate massage or Private message (on a forum).
PO
Phone operator.
Ponygirl or ponyboy
A popular roleplay fantasy that sees the submissive transform into a pony with the help of a harness, reins, gag bit, and a tail attached to a butt plug. The “pony” is expected to prance and/or pull a cart.
Pooner
A hobbyist who is immersed in the hobby culture. He may be very involved with the review boards and/or private exchange of information on ASPs and the hobby.
Pop, pops
Orgasms. An ASP may allow a client to have more than one orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed).
POS
Pussy on the Side. Usually referring to hobbyists in relationships who are getting some POS.
Power dyke
A lesbian who has gained a position of power, either within the LGBT community, or in the world at large.
Professional-only
Also gentleman-only, businessmen-only. A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The ASP posts this in hopes of attracting “better” clientele.
Provider
Prostitute.
PS
Private Show (Dance only).
PV
Private Viewing (Dance only).
PSE
Porn Star Experience. A session that gives the feeling of being in a Porn or XXX Movie or like having a date with a Porn Star. As with the Girlfriend Experience (GFE), a PSE is not very well defined and definitions will vary wildly. It generally refers more to the tone & tenor of the session (totally wild!) than to specific services provided, but many believe PSE should include the possibility of DATY, UTF, Greek, DFK, NQNS, Russian, COF and a broad array of FS positions.
Puffies or puffers
Breasts where the entire areola appears ‘puffy’, enlarged, or swollen.
Punk
A male prostitute.
Punter
A British slang term for a hobbyist.
Pup play
A variant of animal play where a submissive acts like a puppy: barks, whines, eats from a bowl, and generally obeys the master or faces punishment.
PV
Private Viewing. A session that is most often limited to a striptease and self-service. Usually in the context of a Strip Club.
PVC
Polyvinyl chloride. In skin-tight fetish clothing, a shiny substitute for more expensive materials: leather, rubber and latex. “PVC” is also used as a generic term for PVC proper, latex, vinyl and leather.
PW
Pussy Whipped. Adjective describing a guy controlled by a girl because she gives him sex.
PYT
Pretty Young Thing.
Q

Queef
An emission of air from the vagina, especially when noisy, aka vaginal fart or vart.
R

R & T
Rub and Tug. A massage followed by a hand job.
RA
Relaxation Assistant.
Raincoat
condom.
Raw
Sex without condom.
RCA
Reverse Cowgirl Anal.
RCG
See Reverse cowgirl.
Red wings
The ‘badge’ a hobbyist earns for performing oral sex (cunnilingus) on an ASP who is menstruating.
REQ
Request. Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains a request for information. See also 411.
REV
Review. Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains review of an ASP.
Reverse cowgirl
Woman rides on top, facing away.
Reverse half-and-half
Sexual intercourse followed by oral sex to completion.
Reverse massage
The client massages the ASP.
Reverse oral
The client performs oral sex on the ASP.
Review
A critical evaluation of a provider. May include information on her looks, attitude and service.
Rimming or rimjob
Analingus; oral stimulation of the anus.
RLD
Red Light District. Area rich with prostitution.
RMP
Russian massage parlor.
R.O.B. or ROB
Run/Rip Off Bitch. Individuals posing as providers take the money and run without providing any services, aka Cash and Dash.
Role play
Also roleplay. Acting out sexual fantasies in a specific scenario, where participants are assigned roles: dog – owner, nurse – patient, teacher – student, etc.
Role reversal
Same as pegging – penetration of male’s anus by a female with a strap-on dildo
Roman
An orgy.
RPG
Role playing games.
Roman shower
Vomit play.
RTF
Return To Fuck.
RTFF
Read The Fucking Forum.
Rubber
1) Material popular with BDSM practitioners for its tactile characteristics; 2) Items – primarily special clothing – made of this material; compare to PVC; 3) Condom.
Russian
Rubbing a penis between ASP‘s breasts. Usually results in pearl necklace.
Russian (in Australia)
Short sex session, aka a “Quickie”.
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Sexual activity in which various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid diseases transmitted by sexual contact. e.g. All activities were safe.
San Juan Capistrano
BBBJTC and the ASP swallows. See also CIM, BBBJNQNS, birdwatching.
Sandbag, sandbagger
A subjective term for a review (or reviewer) that attempts to mislead the reader by giving unwarranted praise to a provider.
Sans
Without. e.g. She provided French sans beret = BBBJ.
Scat
Defecation on one’s partner or feces play.
Screening
An ASP or agency does a pre-session background check on a new client. E.g. collecting verifiable personal info such as the hobbyist’s real name, place of employment, home or work phone, home or work address, and/ or a referral from a trusted provider. Upfront deposits may also be used as a screening tool to hedge against no-shows.
Self-review
Also Self-post. An ASP or agency poses as a hobbyist, and posts a highly positive review of herself or agency to increase business.
Self service
Masturbation. e.g. “It was a self-servicejack shack” = no contact with the dancer, but the man can masturbate.
Semi pro
An escort whose main source of income is something other than escorting.
Sensory deprivation
Restricting somebody’s ability to see, hear, smell, taste and/or touch through the use of blindfolds, earmuffs, hoods, etc.
Sensual Massage
Also SM. Indicates a massage with sexual stimulation (usually a hand job).
Session
The time spent with an ASP.
Sex worker
Catch all phrase sometimes used to describe prostitutes. May also be used in the context of strippers, peep show workers, topless waitresses.
SFH
Sex For Hire.
SG
Street Girl.
Shemale
Transsexual, particularly one who is living as a woman, but hasn’t had SRS. Penis may or may not get erect.
Shill
A person who writes unsolicited positive commentary about an ASP in a discussion forum to ‘suck up’ to the ASP or who writes unwarranted positive reviews in exchange for discounts or special favors from an ASP or agency.
Shots on goal
Attempts to reach orgasm. e.g. ‘She allows multiple shots on goal’ means she allows more than one orgasm per session if the client is able and interested. See MSOG.
Sixty nine
Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously. See also 69.
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Slam, slammed
An unwarranted or overzealous harsh review or abusive criticism of an ASP or agency.
Snowball
ASP takes ejaculate in her mouth and returns it via kissing to the ejaculator.
SO
Significant Other. Spouse or partner in a (non-casual) relationship.
SOG
Shot(s) on goal, attempt(s) at orgasm.
Soixante-neuf

  1. Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously. See also 69.
    SOMF
    Sat On My Face.
    SOP
    Stantard Operating Procedure.
    South of the border
    Genital region.
    Southern France
    Fellatio without a condom. See also French, BBBJ.
    SP
    Service Provider, prostitute. See also ASP.
    Spanish (Australian usage)
    Penis between her breasts, Russian.
    Spanish (USA usage)
    Penis, finger or toy comes out of the ASP’s ass, and goes directly into the ASP’s mouth. See also Dirty Sanchez, ATM.
    spanking
    Slapping or striking somebody’s buttocks with the palm of the hand or an object like paddle, hairbrush, slapper, etc. A form of punishment / humiliation.
    Spinner
    A very petite provider. So petite in fact, she could easily spin around the client’s erect penis in a position like Asian Cowgirl. One possible etymology: from the action reminiscent of the 1970’s toy, “Sit ‘n’ Spin”.
    Squirting, squirter
    Female ejaculation, an ASP who ejaculates.
    SRS
    Sexual Reassignment Surgery.
    ST
    Short Time.
    Starfish
    Anus or Unresponsive ASP.
    STD
    Sexually Transmitted Disease.
    Sting
    A female police officer poses as an ASP to apprehend unsuspecting clients, or a male police officer poses as a client to apprehend unsuspecting ASPs.
    Stone butch lesbian
    A lesbian who gets her pleasure from pleasing her partner. She does not like to be touched sexually.
    STR
    Short Term Relationship.
    Street action
    Prostitution that is solicited on public streets. Prostitutes (usually on foot) are picked up by clients in motor vehicles. Sexual acts may occur in the vehicle, or at another agreed upon location.
    Stroll
    A street, strip, or neighborhood that sees heavy street action.
    Submission
    In BDSM, giving freely of oneself for the pleasures of others, subordinating oneself (with agreed upon limits).
    Submissive
    In BDSM, a person trained by a dominant. Often shortened to Sub. See Submission.
    Sunshine, sunny
    Without a condom (i.e. no raincoat).
    SW
    Street walker
    Sex Worker
    Sybian
    A mechanical sex device shaped as a half-barrel with a dildo mounted in the middle.
    SYT
    Sweet Young Thing.
    T
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Take care of business
Payment is made to provider. e.g. “She wanted to take care of business first.”.
Teabag, teabagging
To dunk ones scrotum into the open mouth of another person.
Tie and tease
A game of control over a partner’s orgasm with common use of physical restraints. Often a part of tease and denial.
Tease and denial
Also known as erotic denial, orgasm denial. A mild sexual torture in which a high state of sexual arousal is maintained for an extended time without climax.
TAMP
Therapeutic Asian Massage Parlor.
TER
The erotic reviews site, adult services classifieds board, and hobby discussion forums.
TG
Transgender. Catch-all term for transvestites, transsexuals, shemales, and CDs.
TGTBT
Too Good To Be True.
Throne job
Self-service. Refers to an establishment that doesn’t offer FS. The premises will only have a large chair or “throne” for you to sit on and masturbate while the woman dances for you.
Tina
Crystal meth.
Tipping required
The ASP demands more than the advertised price in order to perform, or bargains hard for various services. See also upselling, hidden charges.
To completion
Until orgasm.
TOFTT
Take One For The Team. What a hobbyist is said to do when they see an enigmatic ASP. Some argue that a hobbyist is only TOFTT when the experience ends up to be a bad experience. Others argue that if the hobbyist doesn’t report back in some way, e.g., with a review, then the hobbyist has not TOFTT.
Top
In homosexual parlance: the active partner. In BDSM: the dominant.
Toss the salad
Analingus.
Training
1) BDSM slavery; a way of letting the Submissive understand that the Dominant is their master. 2) Any specific scenario used to convey the message from #1: slave training, pup training, pony training, etc.
Trans, tranny
An inclusive term, encompassing transgender, transsexual and other gender variant people.
Transgender
A person whose gender expression is different from how society says they are “supposed” to be. Transgender can be an umbrella term for cross-dressers, transsexuals, intersex people and other gender-variant individuals.
Transsexual
A person with the urge to be the opposite sex. They may or may not choose to have gender reassignment surgery.
Translated French, TF
Oral sex with a condom.
Translation, translator
Condom, e.g., “She spoke fluent French without a translator” = BBBJ.
Transvestite
A person who sometimes wears clothes traditionally worn by and associated with the opposite sex; typically a male who cross-dresses occasionally by habit or compulsion.
Trick
A sex act for money, as in ‘She is turning tricks‘.
A man who patronizes prostitutes, as in ‘That trick was a FOBU’.
Tri F
A devotee to the “Find them, Fuck them, Forget them” strategy.
Trip to islands
Greek, anal. Also a “tour of the islands”.
Trolling
The act of driving around looking for a prostitute. As in cruising.
Posting to a discussion board with the intent to anger or incite others. One who does so is referred to as a ‘troll’.
TS
Transsexual. A person with the urge to be the opposite sex. They may or may not choose to have gender reassignment surgery.
Table Shower.
TTA
Tight Tan Ass.
Tuft
Pubic hair.
TUMA
Tongue Up My Ass.
Turning tricks
Prostitution.
TV
Transvestite. A person who sometimes wears clothes traditionally worn by and associated with the opposite sex; typically a male who cross-dresses occasionally by habit or compulsion.
TVSW
Transvestite Street Walker.
Two Call System
The general location is revealed during the first call; location specifics are revealed on the second call.
U
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Uncle Leo
A law enforcement officer.
umbrella
Condom.
Uncovered, or untranslated
Without a condom.
Upselling
An ASP takes the advertised fee upfront, but in the midst of the session she asks for more money for more services. (e.g. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.), aka hidden charges.
UTF
Untranslated French. Oral sex without a condom.
UTR
Under The Radar; an ASP who maintains a very low profile; generally does not advertise, does not accept reviews, does not have a website and does not participate in hobby forums.
V
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verbal humiliation / abuse
Issuing insults and negative epithets to produce belittlement, from which excitement and/or arousal can be obtained. Giving is done by the dominant, who produces the humiliation, while receiving is done by the submissive, who is the object.
Vanilla
Plain genital sex without any extras.
W
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WAH
Wild Ass Humping.
water sports
Urination play. see also golden shower.
Wax play
Dripping melted wax on the submissive‘s naked skin. This activity requires thorough understanding of the material that the candles are made of. Eyewear is recommended.
Weeklies
Alternative weekly newspapers. These often contain various adult service listings, including massage and escort advertisements. e.g. The Village Voice, San Francisco Bay Guardian, The Stranger.
WF
Wild Fuck.
WG
Working Girl. A prostitute.
Whip
In the strictest sense, a strip of leather attached to a handle, whip commonly describes any object used for beating a submissive: whips proper, canes, crops, paddles, slappers, etc. See English.
White knight
A hobbyist who defends or “comes to the rescue” of a provider who has been reviewed or spoken of poorly, regardless of whether the review or comments are accurate, aka defender.
Whoremonger
One who habitually patronizes prostitutes.
WIR
Would I Repeat, Would I Return, Would I Recommend.
With
With a condom (e.g. French with = CBJ).
Without
Without a condom. (e.g. French without = BBBJ).
WL
Working Lady.
WOA
Word of Advice.
Womyn
An alternative spelling of woman or women often favored by feminists.
Working girl
A prostitute.
WTF
What the f#$k.
Y
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YL
Young Lady.
YMMV
Your Mileage May Vary. A overused, common sense disclaimer meant to convey that an ASP may do things with one person, but not with another. Often used as a caveat, “Don’t accuse me of a false report if she doesn’t do the same with you.”.
YMMV Girl
An ASP who is known for being inconsistent in her attitude and service. i.e. Gets hot and cold reviews.
Other common internet abbreviations
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AAMOF
As A Matter Of Fact.
ADN
Any Day Now.
AFAHMASP
A Fool And His Money Are Soon Parted.
AFAIAC
As Far As I Am Concerned.
AFAIK
As Far As I Know.
AIMB
As I Mentioned Before.
ASAD
All-Singing All-Dancing.
ATM
At The Moment.
ATST
At The Same Time.
BION
Believe It Or Not.
BOGOF
Buy One Get One Free.
BRB
Be Right Back.
BRBBRB
Be Right Back – Bathroom Break.
BRBCB
Be Right Back – Coffee Break.
BRLCFH
Broke Ribs Laughing, Call For Help.
BTSOOM
Beats The Stuffing Out Of Me.
BTW
By The Way.
CYA
Cover Your Ass.
DC
Double-Click.
DILIGA (S | F | D)
Do I look like I give a (St) (Fk) (Damn) ?.
ETHOM
Excuse The Hell Out of Me.
FOOMCBASL
Falling Out Of My Chair Busting A Spleen Laughing.
FKA
Formerly Known As.
FUBAR
Fouled Up Beyond All Repair/Recognition.
FWIW
For What Its Worth.
FYI
For Your Information.
FYR
For Your Records.
GD&R
Grin, Duck and Run.
IAC
In Any Case.
IANALB
I Am Not A Lawyer But.
ICOCBW
I Could, Of Course, Be Wrong.
IM(H)O
In My (Humble) Opinion.
IOW
In Other Words.
ISO
In Search Of.
ISTR
I Seem To Remember.
IWIK
I Wish I knew.
KIT
Keep In Touch.
L&G
Latest And Greatest.
LMK
Let Me Know.
LOL
Laughing Out Loud.
LTNS
Long Time No See.
LUKHITO
Let Us Know How It Turns Out.
MBWA
Management By Wandering Around.
MMF
Make Money Fast (scam).
NIMBY
Not In My Back Yard.
NTYMI
Now That You Mention It.
NP
No Problem.
OMG
Oh My God/Gosh.
OTOH
On The Other Hand.
OP
Original Post or Original Poster.
PEBKAC
Problem Exists Between Keyboard And Chair.
PEBMAC
Problem Exists Between Monitor And Chair.
PM[F]JI
Pardon Me [For] Jumping In.
QQ
Quick Question.
ROFL
Rolls On Floor Laughing.
ROTFLMAO
Rolling On The Floor Laughing My Ass Off.
TFX
Too Flippin’ eXpensive.
TIA
Thanks In Advance.
TLD
Topless lap dance.
TPTB, PTB
The Powers That Be.
TTBOMK
To The Best Of My Knowledge.
TTYL
Talk To You Later.
TWT
Time Will Tell.
WAD
Working As Designed.
WAS
Wait And See.
WTHDIK
What The Hell Do I Know.
YHBT
You Have Been Trolled.
YMMV
Your mileage may vary, your experience may be different.

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Afterdarkads and Corona Virus / COVID-19

In response to the current uncertainty and fear that the presence of the corona virus COVID-19 has caused, we wanted to assure you that we are taking precautions and monitoring the situation closely. We will be doing all we can to help our advertisers and the community. We BEG of our advertisers to use the highest precautions and take all possible preventative measures, in your personal life and when working. Below you will find some things we are doing for our advertisers to help them financially in these tough times.

We have empowered our employees with resources based on the CDC guidelines. Explicit instructions on preventative measures have been distributed as well as instructions on proper self-care and revised work policies have been put in place. Our commitment to employee safety and health along with the safety and health of their loved ones has and will always be a top priority for afterdarkads.

We know that this situation is causing extreme hardships for our advertisers. We have several options and opportunities for our advertisers looking to make money in work from home and potentially safer situations than their normal work usually entails. Please contact us at info@afterdarkads.com with the subject “work help” if you are interested in hearing what these opportunities entail.

We are committed to helping the community and our advertisers in any way we can.

We are also cutting rates for advertising by 50%, Any advertisers having trouble paying for an ad, please reach out so we can discuss options for you. We are here to help.

Please take care of yourselves and each other.

Afterdarkads.com team

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Afterdarkads is “garbage”?

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I had the misfortune and unpleasant experience of heading once again down the rabbit hole that is twitter, and worse, browsing postings and tweets from escorts on twitter.

Please don’t misunderstand, for the most part I see sexworkers advertising themselves, posting some pretty hot content, and interacting… but there is another side of it all… an seemingly angry and hateful side.

A site contributor of afterdarkads and one of our greatest proponent’s, RisaJ pointed me to a discussion regarding Tryst.link.

Many escorts and advertisers were reporting horrid results, and were very frustrated (understandable), some were happy with the platform. There was some of the typical client bashing/hate, but what shocked me was seeing a prominent and I thought respected Provider from NY bash our site calling the platform “garbage” and refusing to “recommend babes lower their standards to advertising on that site”, after our Social Media director used our twitter account ( https://twitter.com/Afterdarkads) to suggest us as an alternative for anyone unhappy with tryst.

Thankfully the tweet has since been removed, and thank you for that, but it is something we see all to often. This apparent attitude from the escort that charges $800+ an hour and accepts Saks gift cards or 1st class airfare as deposits, that any sexworker charging $150 and advertising on a backpage replacement site like afterdarkads.com is “garbage”, that there is something “wrong” with being a sexworker that advertises on sites like afterdarkads, that the escorts on sites like backpage are beneath them. That it is ok to bash and insult anyone without a $2500 website and a professional photographer.

I would love to ask who exactly they were referring to when this person called afterdarkads “garbage”? Was it the mother of 3 in Seattle that advertises her phone sex line? Or the escort in Denver who knows that “denver backpage” is the best google result for SW’rs in her city, therefore brings the most traffic to her $1 ad that gets her 2 or 3 bookings the one day she posts it per week… allowing her to pay ALL of her bills and spend the rest of the week finishing her masters. Is it the TS provider in Chicago that advertises her outreach program? I want to know who is the garbage that she referred to.

Becasue afterdark ads IS our advertisers. We the owners are sexworkers. I personally escorted for over 13 years. My partner 10. The writers for our SEO are all current sexworkers. Once again, afterdarkads IS our advertisers, so who is garbage?

Garbage is the “fellow” sexworker that puts down other providers. Garbage is the woman putting other women down rather than building them up.

Maybe she felt the Gay, Lesbian and Transexual providers we give free advertising to are the garbage. I don’t know. I was NOT insulted as the site owner, I got over that a long time ago. The hate mail from so called Christians alone gave me tough skin. I could care less in that regard. I am not insulted as the business owner or creator, I am insulted as a SW’r and woman and an escort.

We have given tens of thousands of dollars in free advertising away, we give free advertising help, website work, and much more all to help build our advertisers businesses. we link our advertisers personal websites in ways to help their SEO, we EXPLAIN SEO to them, and provide free help in that regard. We are doing our best to make our money from selling ads to outside sites and cam sites, as opposed to charging our SW”rs to post. We pay for development, employees, marketing, SEO, security, legal fees, and much more, all at a loss, to help others in this industry. We do this because we know our advertisers are NOT garbage. We ARE our advertisers.

Want to know what I feel is garbage? Her understanding of advertising. Her lack of knowledge regarding branding, SEO, and more, and her attitude towards SW’s that use sites like afterdarkads.

I looked at her rates. BARE min you can see her for is $800.

Lets do some math.

Tryst is basically an avg of $70/month for most people. $840 a year. Lets say that her ad gets just ONE booking per year, she breaks even. 2 and she is making a 100% return on her money, thats IF she only books a 1 hour date.

I would say that if she is at ALL confident in her appearance, booking procedures, closing procedures, screening and follow through, this is a solid investment.

That same advertisement on afterdarkads would cost her aprox $10 a month, $120 a year… if it resulted in just ONE booking, she would see a profit of $680. 2 bookings would net her $1480. That is about the same profit margin as buying amazon stock in the late 90’s.

BUT… I know, there are things to consider, she is above posting on our garbage site with the other garbage.

Also, the guys that spend $800+ an hour are not searching afterdarkads, they are only on sites like Tryst right?

WRONG.

There are 2 basic types of man looking to book an escort, the hobbyist, and the first timer. The hobbyist sees escorts often, knows what sites to look on for what he seeks, and “knows the drill”. The first timer is the husband on vacation, the guy that saw “a hooker once when he was overseas in the military”, the older man unfamiliar with the internet and what it offers. The reclusive wealthy bookish engineer that does this once a year.

They take to google and search “escorts denver” or “escorts atlanta” and start clicking away at those top 10 results. They search for things like “adult classifieds” and are the types that actually sign up for ashley madison thinking they are really gonna find a bored milf that wants to fuck for free.

They are often scared, unsure of what is real… they text the first ad they see using pics of Kate Upton claiming to be “need hard dick for fuck now” hoping that a girl that looks like her is really on a website offering “hot sex with my breast for you” for $100qv. They dont know what QV is anyway.

And who are they? The owner of the New England Patriots used a site like afterdarkads.com to find the AMP he went to in Florida.

PLEASE tell me there are no men using afterdarkads to find sexworkers and escorts that can afford or will pay $800/hr. PLEASE. There are just as many using us that can as can not.

So Should $800+ an hour escorts use a site like afterdarkads? Absolutly! Why? Branding. Here are 2 examples of COMMON everyday occurrences.

  1. The hobbyist. He knows the deal. Today he does not have time, nor need for a 2 hour Proper Introduction that costs $1200, hes looking to get a quick blowjob before a meeting. He does not want to go through screening, he does not have the time to wait for a email response. He wants to call, get an address… show up to an incall, call again for a room number, pay $200, get taken care of without buying “agent provocateur” and a red Burgundy wine as gifts before stopping at multiple atm’s to get more cash than his daily limit. He makes more in a month than the escort charging $800/hr makes in a year, and could afford anything he wants… and today he wants a easy QV. He uses a site like afterdarkads KNOWING that a large percentage of the advertisers fit perfectly into what he wants. Its too bad he did not see the ad our $800+ an hour escort never posted because she is so much better than reducing her standards to advertising on a site like afterdarkads. Its too bad because later this month he is heading to Aspen skiing and wanted the company of a beautiful woman. To bad because had he seen her ad, he may of bookmarked her website for later. To bad because later when he DID go to tryst or slixa looking for his ski bunny, and saw her ad there as well… he would be MORE likely to look again, and possibly book. He has been “branded”
  2. The First timer, he googles away with random searches, “escorts near me” and “I want to get a blowjob now”. He stumbles on Tryst, browses every profile. is scared off by “screening”. He does not have a reference. He does not want to send his ID and phone to a stranger, he is sure half are fake ads, the other half all cops. He does not want to be on “the John List” or 6pm news. He abandons his search 3 times. Goes back. EVERY site he is on, afterdarkads.com, tryst, slixa adultsearch, bedpage, EVERY one has an ad for our $800/hr girl. This leads him to believe she is real. She is not a scam. He finds escort reviews, he finds more sites… EVERY SITE has her on there. No way she is a cop, no way its fake… the sheer force put into advertising proves to him she is as driven about her business as she is pleasing him in bed (what he is paying for!) He spends time looking at her pics EVERY time he sees her on EVERY site. He revisits her own website over and over, driving her SEO higher. Bringing her website better traffic being linked in to so many more authoritative sites.

Was it really the ad on any one site that made him finally decide to book? Can you really say that seeing the ad on xyz site was what ACTUALLY made him book? NO It was being BRANDED and seeing her as often as possible on every site out there that led him to book. What is branding? What do you clean your ears with? NO not q-tips, they are cotton swabs… q-tips are a BRAND and you saw it and heard of them so many times you are branded and think of them when you need to clean ears. Kleenex? NO, tissues. The best part of waking up… is WHAT in your cup? There is a reason advertisers run ads for their products in as many places as they can. Do you really think you as a SW’r are different? You are marketing a service, a product. You should advertise yourself in as many places as you can reaching as many POTENTIAL customers as you can. Adult Classifieds, Escort Ads, Rubmaps, It is not the ad on any one site that will get you those CEO’s and new regular clients that drop a $500 tip every time. Its the CULMINATION of your ads on ALL of these sites.

An ad on Afterdarkads costs $1. It is not worth $1 to expand your SEO by getting a backlink? Not worth $1 to run the chance you will be seen by the hobbyist that does not KNOW where to find $800+ hour girls because hes never searched for one before? Not WORTH $1 to expand your reach and branding? As SW’rs we need to understand advertising and marketing. Branding is advertising/marketing 101.

As I said, afterdarkads IS our advertisers. They are not “garbage” . The garbage is a person that attacks others without reason or cause. Garbage is the SW”rt that thinks she is batter than any other SW’r because of how or where she advertises. Garbage is not having any clue of who you are insulting and trying to tear down.

If there is anyone out there that wants further help with ad placement, SEO, website work or anything else, PLEASE… reach out to us. We have a staff that is not only your fellow garbage SW”s, but very knowledgeable and VERY successful. We know how to get ad results. We know how to increase your sales and profits, and we are MORE than happy to help our garbage members and advertisers. We love you, we ARE you.

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Afterdarkads in a world without Backpage

Backage and the Craigslist personals and backpage classifieds where closed by the federal government in April of 2018. As we come up on 2 years without a Atlanta backpage, afterdarkads.com has emerged as the number one backpage replacement.

Afterdarkads is Considered the New Backpage and backpage replacement.

People searching for adult personal sites were in for a shock when Backpage was closed down by the US Government.  They are now looking for new Backpage alternatives. Many such websites are trying to take advantage but very few matches in quality of services and reliability as afterdarkads.

Backpage was one of the top classified ads websites where people could buy and sell services. Among other products like land, furniture, jobs, homes, cars, the site was well-known for its escorts and dating services.  Backpage was shut down as it was alleged that their website was encouraging human and underage child trafficking.

A viable choice for agencies Craigslist personals and backpage classifieds

Service providers that were relying on the company are now in search of dependable sites like Backpage for their promotional activities. If you own a similar business and are seeking a reliable alternative, checkout the new website (www.afterdarkads.com). They have their services in all the major cities across the United States. They offer all the services that were previously available with Backpage. With the closing of the Backpage website, most of its regular clients now are shifting to Afterdarkads.

The company has its list of satisfied customers which is multiplying now with the closure of Backpage. Afterdarkads is well organized with service providers in every niche.

On the homepage, customers can quickly find their requirements in the listings. If they are a travelling, it is simple to book an escort service in advance by typing out the details in the search bar. As mentioned earlier, all the listings are verified before they are published on afterdarkads.com, the top contender in the list of sites similar to Backpage.  The risks of spam and fake ads is not there because afterdarkads carefully monitors who is posting ads. They do not allow fake adult escorts to post.

How Afterdarkads stands tall among the alternatives

afterdarkads.com is doing well since its inception and has always been in the race as a Backpage replacement. Several businesses are prospering benefiting from the growing popularity of Afterdarkads . The dating and escort categories are among the most popular categories here. Anyone seeking adult classifieds, or looking for adult escort ads, AMP’s and adult massage must checkout the best craigslist alternative afterdarkads.

All the advertisements are verified for legality, authenticity, and reliability before being published. So clients using the website find it very safe and are assured of privacy in all types of transactions.

People that haveused backpage in the past sometimes hesitate as they have security concerns. With the sudden closure of Backpage, this concern has been on the increase. Questions arise in their mind as to how to find which sites like Backpage will be the best for their business. What if that site is closed? Will it not affect the business reputation?  afterdarkads removes these concerns with their high-quality support and services. Tehy do not allow illigal escort ads or postings from minors. Sex traffickers are NOT welcome and are reported to authorities when any ad is suspected of being a case of human trafficking.

Benefits for businesses

If you are an advertiser, the process of displaying your ad. is simple and quick. The site allows free postings. You can get a very good exposure for your services looking at the number of visitors that browse the site.

This is one advantage of partnering with afterdarkads.com which you may not find with the other sites similar to Backpage. The flow of genuine traffic daily is much higher. There are numerous categories Craigslist personals and backpage classifieds and industries that afterdarkads caters to. You will easily find an appropriate category for your brand.

Customers will find you wherever you are located and seek your services in addition to for their needs on afterdarkads. Clients that use to use the adult personals section of craigslist will love the ease of finding adult personal ads and independent escorts on afterdarkads.

Bedpage is the one-stop solution when you intend to publicize your brand in any adult ad posting site, adult classified site, adult SEO sites, adult blog posting sites or similarThis gives you plenty of scopes to connect with like minded businesses in your industry. As you must be aware, Backpage was a giant among the top free classified ads companies. It has ruled the trade for almost two decades and was available in more than 850 cities globally. It was being published in 15 languages. Afterdarkads will soon have the same reach in the escort advertising industry.

Multiple plans

afterdarkads.com, the most worthwhile Backpage replacement, for instance, afterdarkads has different plans to cater to their differing customers. They have free classified services. If you wish to keep your ad on the top there is a small cost.

There are premium services too for at an additional cost to advertise in multiple cities. When people come searching for a classified site for escorts, lesbians, gay, transgender, transsexuals, TS, Shemale, massage, body rub, spa, strip clubs, strippers, and your business caters to these services, advertising in multiple cities will be an advantage for sure.

You can use the personal ad section and use the banner image to post your adult content site on the bedpage website. This will be helpful from the SEO aspect as well. Investing a small amount will get you lucrative results in the long run.

However, the benefits are the same whatever business you run. If you are a startup or run a small agency, the publicity your brand gets at no extra cost is something you must try with the new Backpage option.

Give the clients their due

afterdarkads the best escorts, adult classifieds and bsite like backpage and Craigslist personals and backpage classifieds
afterdarkads is the best adult classifieds and escort ads for adult escorts and is a backpage replacement and site like backpage

Most men and even women for that matter want to have an adventurous time when they are alone in a new city. They look for escorts in the evenings. They may also want to look for some online services and the best place to search are the adult ad posting site, adult classified site, adult blog posting sites like afterdarkads. Craigslist personals and backpage classifieds are all best found on afterdarkads.com

Many people in remote areas, unaware that Backpage has closed, waste their time and feel lost when they cannot find the best backpage alternatives. This has made afterdarkads.com the best site similar to backpage.

Your business can take a beating if you place your ad. in any unproductive classified advertising sites that claim to be the best alternative to Backpage.  There could be times when you wish to make some changes to your ad. in text, location, or anything similar. With afterdarkads, you have the benefit of getting around the clock customer support. In addition to you can pick up your phone and talk to them with your requirements at any time of the day.

However, it is important that in your search for escorts or companions, do not presume everyone you come across is a prostitute. They have their reasons for choosing the profession. Furthermore, you must respect them as much as you expect them to respect you.

Specify your requirements

Be specific which category you are interested in when you browse the classified site for escorts, lesbians, gay, transgender, transsexuals, TS, Shemale, massage, body rub, spa, strip clubs, strippers. When you seek an escort, for instance, remember they will not necessarily oblige you if you ask for sex. They are professionals, for instance, accompany you, for instance, come out on a date with you and more. Many find enjoyment watching strippers and visit strip clubs. If you run a similar business, you are likely to get plenty of customers by advertising with afterdarkads.

Afterdarkads makes yes back page run by a cunt its bitch.

It is an open fact that the adult entertainment industry including sex workers. The escort industry have been badly hit because of the Backpage closure. While some of them were able to manage because of regular customers, most of them find it difficult. Finding new clients is difficult unless they have a reliable platform to advertise their services.C raigslist personals and backpage classifieds have to spend hours on the internet to search for an ideal Backpage replacement. The professionals were upset and did not believe that Backpage had shut down. Now with afterdarkads they are thriving again!

Almost every industry today relies on the classifieds to showcase their products. Customers too rely on these classified sites to decide about their purchases. The days of visiting a store to pick up a product have given way to online shopping. So, it is necessary you choose a reliable online platform to assure yourself of the standards and quality.

Registering with afterdarkads, the new Backpage substitute is the best way for customers to find authentic services. The listings with them are huge and cover a wide range of categories. You will find the best quality service providers, artists, buying/selling agents, local places, investors, real estate agents and much more here.

Startups and small businesses including individual professionals can expect free classified listings to allow them wider exposure. They will have a clear-cut advantage over the entities that are not listed.